5 regrets people make on their deathbed

5 regrets people make on their deathbed telling by the Nurse!

It make me says YES on it...

1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people have had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn't work so hard.

This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.

Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly,in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved.Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have sillyness in their life again.

When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again,long before you are dying.

From all the 5 lessons, LET MYSELF BE HAPPIER is the most important part for me!

How about you?

Deal with people

Previous i enjoy group discussion, it just because i can meet people around and found out what so different between my self and people around me. Learning to communicate with people around and having fun with them. Trying to discover and learn from people.

But now i found that i more enjoy doing work by my self. It just because it give me privacy and time for me to think and do whatever i like and interest for.

seriously, learning how to deal or associate with people around u is an important lesson through the life.

who are u? Where u are? what u doing ? Most of the people may not curious about it.

They only start to realize and found u when u able to influence them. Human relationship is complicated. Well , it take time for me to keep on searching ; discovering; and learning.

People in the are same in terms of they have common characteristic. As compared to animals, people able to realize the world; have perception to the things that is happening; able to analyse and make decision. People are intelligent ? Yes?

For me ,human are cleaver but not intelligent at all it just because we need to learning and keep on improving. If people can survive without learning , i think it is not human but it is beyond human. Learning formed thinking;Thinking formed realizing;realizing formed creative.

Either way, Human will have this common procedure.

Different people will have different attitude ; behavior ; culture; even the way they bring out their words and the way they look at thing.....

changing it just the method u try to suit people and make people match with u....

Dealing is a lesson that human need to learn in their long life journey !